I have been wondering if it is quite the same when you break up with someone and when they die?
I really mean to get a deep understanding in the matter, i do know that there is people that are "Good Friends" with their exes or so they say. I am not that type of person, I don't mean to say I just stop talking to them or just tell them off but they just slipped out of my life and I from theirs.
I saw P.S I Love You and I thought how much it is alike when someone dies and when you break up with these person, facts:
* You never see them again (If you are lucky enough).
* You never hear from them again.
* No one ever ask or talks about them again.
* Every time you see a picture or anything related to this person you hate the fact he/she is gone or just keep going so you don't have to remember it at all.
* Depending on who was the one who ended the relationship, you cry every time something reminds you of him/her and you can't get them out of your head even if you try really hard.
* When drunk you always seem of remember you still love them.
* There are empty spaces to be fill in your life, which the only person who can fill them is he/she.
I will keep my investigation open I do rest my case for now. What do you think? Is it the same?
May 22, 2008
Dying & Breaking Up...
Posted by Kathy at 1:38 PM
Labels: Broken Heart, Feelings, Love, Reality
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3 comments:
I went through it too two summers ago - remember? Of course you do, you were there! It's the hardest fucking thing in the world at the time because you simply cannot imagine living without them. And you don't want to. And they're all you think about, all the time. And when you break up, it is like they\re suddenly dead, in many ways.
It gets easier over time, but you have to allow yourself the simply pleasure of meeting new people. Even if you\re not interested at first, eventually you may be. You owe yourself that much.
Those pics are fantastic, BTW.
I have no idea what time is anymore...it doesn't seem to get any easier at all and about meeting people...there is no people to meet!!
I wish I would wake up one morning and don't ever remember he existed in my life..u know like be happy like I was b4 him ...It'll be great!
Love that you love the pics...there are some more on Facebook and some coming ok? When are we seeing each other again??? I want a pic with u!
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